No matter how many times everything has happened before but Everything after marriage happens for the first time.
This time Rakshabandhan is something special. Along with the joy of going home, it is equally difficult to say bye to your husband.
Journey ✨ #BlytoLko
The fun of travelling with so many questions entangled in oneself is something else.
And it is even more fun to write the experiences of that journey.
Many of people standing on the platform had a different story like mine.
As I was lost in myself and they was in themselves but the destination was the same for everyone and that was to meet their loved ones.
Lost in thoughts, as when 3 और 4 stations left, it was not known.
Then the train stopped at the station and then came the influx of crowd. Everyone was worried about how to get a place inside the train . Then sudden two girls climbed up exactly like me in my compartment.
🚃HomeComing🚃
As long as I could think of something from the window seat where I was sitting, an uncle and aunty shouting – ” BETU SAHI SE JANA OR CALL KARNA MAT BHULNA” ( BETU TRAVEL SAFELY AND DO NOT FORGET TO CALL )
It was understood without thinking that he was none other than maybe mother and father of those two girls. And as soon as I glanced at them my heart was broken even more.
Now what must have been the story of their, God knows, but the crying of the parents and the crying of both of them as if I also couldn’t resist and made myself cry.
Maybe both had come on Rakhi. But these tears tell that no matter how far you stay away from parents, brothers and sisters, husband and wife, but the real love made you cry no matter what.
And after marriage, it seems I understand more about relationships, to know how it feels to be a daughter, sister, mother as if I can’t bear all these things even more.
Why we do not know how to claim our rights, why we always try to hide our emotions, while in real sense, whomever we love, we always have to show that they matters more than anything else. Just think how much our people and we need each other support and respect mutually at every aspect of life because we know that blood or physical relation never breaks but still we are so overburdened with the fakeness of this world and pretend we don’t care, we hate to live by, we hate responsibilities which are meant to be present, we betray, we do a lot of odd things instead of just staying a simple word that WE CARE, AND AS WE CARE A LOT , A SMALL ODD THING OF OUR OWN PEOPLE HURT US MORE THAN ANY OTHER THING.
I just hope that God blesses every true love person with good luck. And give courage at every step to right the wrong and show your love without fear, whether that love is of parents, sister brother, or husband wife.
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I wish this rakshabhandhan not only we fight with our brothers for gift but also we pray for him with the promise that whenever life needs we both are together, I wish every parent will stick to their children’s dream and accept the changes of this new era, I wish partners also tie a knot of love that no matter what the situation is but to respect and love is always on priority more than money, fame, fakeness, showoff etc. All are at one side but never ever make yourself and your loved ones feel alone in your presence… Lets Promise!!!
Sometimes I am amazed that how people choose some special one and promise to love them eternally, I mean without a single doubt in mind how they pardon each other and again start loving equally and eternally.
I guess it takes a lot of homework to do together to reach at that level where no matter what the situation is but everytime you prefer your people over strange one, otherwise normally people are just so into the physical part of the ones and once their need is over they throw them away like old clothes.
If life seems to be this where either you play games or want a physical connection or you prefer a totally devoted partner then what is the point of cheating in between ?!
Why people make so many scenarios on the name of love even when they have a good option to ask someone directly or go to that place where their needs be fulfilled, why these things can’t be normalised.
Yes, if you want only sex then why you don’t ask to that person directly or go to place where you just squeeze, OR if you truly searching a partner then why you can’t be committed till your life end.
I feel pity when I see that people spend so many good memories with each other still they are interested in making the relationship with more than one, and what more devastating situation is they feel bad when the other partner do the same like them or if it happen to their closed ones, the same people are full of same judgements who are doing the same shit like others and this is actually not love, no not at all.
Friendship and love they both are different, and one must understand the difference between them and if you genuinely love your lover then you understand your limits when it comes to your role of being friend to some one or being lover , you can’t be just naked and having all the private chats share with both the parties and I think people just never try to understand this and instead of this they prefer to end everything and this is such a tragedy.
When it comes to love or even flirt I think one need to be very frank, but unfortunately the trait of human greed in love is what makes love a topic of laugh.
Well, I wish people read this and let the words sink in so that they don’t end their relationship just for the social lust.
We are so sure about everything , we are moving towards the fifth generation and onwards, but sadly one thing we forget and that is – “WE CAN NOT WIN THE WAR AGAINST THE NATURE.”
*This year 2021 is worse than 2020 and yet the human don’t understand what it means.*
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😷 STAY SAFE 😷
The emptiness and darkness growing day by day , the people die daily and suffer with the illness whose antidote is still not developed and they are talking about how to fly high without knowing the fact that to fly high one must be alive.
☮️ TOGETHER WE CAN ☮️
Alas! The mind is big no doubt, it evolves but the imagination is still lacking somewhere and this pandemic shows (COVID-19) that we are just like a tiny atoms connected with each other to form a big molecule and yet we fail to maintain the ecological balance and now the only thing which is in our hand is to pray, and isn’t is terrible ?
🙏🏻 SELF CARE IS IMPORTANT 🙏🏻
Isn’t it bother you that being full of all powerful weapon, medicine, new technologies still you fail to save your own people ?! Isn’t it sufficient to see and to understand the value of time, to tell you that we are nothing in front of this nature, the nature laws and the whole universe.
🌀 Look and Think 🌀
Yes, it is late and if still you are not accepting this truth of the universe – you are going to be vanish soon.
The universe is bigger than you thoughts and imagination, it is a big jigsaw puzzle and you know just a 1% of it and if your selfishness is to challenge it and change all the laws of it , then it is just the beginning of the end…
A UNIVERSE IS THE GREATEST GIFT!
You have to understand this.
The way one lose it control in mankind, The way deforestation take place, The way we lose faith in humans, The way we experiment over the laws of nature, The way we prefer monetary over humans, The way people ( my own surrounding ) die without oxygen and constantly running for the medical care, I am in grief after seeing the pain of the world, I don’t have any words and I know that it it our fault and we are responsible for this, although the ground reality hits hard and it is also the truth that nobody would understand their duty as well :- The government we choose for our wellfare will fail to protect us, the way they show selfishness is terrible and we as the countrymen have nothing to say, also the people who don’t understand what their duty as a citizen is also responsible for this havoc, So no one is left whom should be this mother earth pardon itself , and the oxygen which is still left will shouted and telling you that please SAVE ME AND SAVE YOURSELF AND IF NOT THEN ~ THE END IS NEAR! 🙏🏻
💫 I pray that we all overcome very soon and will understand our duty as well. 💫
💟 DO NOT BREAK THE CHAIN OF LOVE 💟
🌑 With more compassion, love, respect and care we shall overcome very soon! 🌕
Love is not about perfection but it is about to make things perfect.
The year 2020 is worse but the books I choose to read in this pandemic is what made my life awesome…
One year four books ( Except from the regular syllabus book) not enough but quiet worthy to read.
The Notebook
Hippie
You and Me
Sunset by the river
All are having different style and theme but worthy to read.
💟 Love above all 💟
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I am here describing my real over reel for the current book which I read 📖 and one thing is that this book is very close to me apart from the negativity I felt personally because some things are pretty and ugly at the same time but I do write only for me and for my love!
At the starting of the days when the book is in writing phase, I have all the faith on writer’s writing magic, May be some other also have but for me it is a kind of first precious thing and I have all believes that this book is going to be of the best-seller and here it is 💁🏻
The bond of “LOVE”,
The bond of “FRIENDSHIP”,
The most important issue mention in the book “MENTAL HEALTH”
✨ All describing like very beautifully in the book. ✨
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I am not going to open up all the woah’s for you, instead of this I just write my own version of the Review – & I request all my WordPress community people to give it a read because I know it will never leave you despair in between or at the end. 😊
Chapter One and Two defines major goals of friendship 👥 I wish everyone have a friend in his life whom one can share their deep dark secrets without hesitation…
Just like Ayaan ( Character in the book ) have one of the guy ( friend ) with him – who trust, support and understand his friend’s worries and instead of giving wrong advice – his friend’s support him.
🌅 Favourite Line from the novel – You can share your deepest, darkest concerns with such a friend and feel like you’ve outgrown those fears that had been suffocating you from the inside ~ Pg. 20
Chapter Three although personally I don’t like this chapter because it reminds me of someone who is just terrible and all the details well I don’t want to elaborate but somehow connected and I don’t want to write it down…
Move on to the positive one personally I love the character Tripti apart and except from her first presence in blue and red because it again remind me someone whom I hate.
LOL 🙂 it’s writer choice of selection and I can’t do much!
Chapter Three is beautiful in its own way as ayaan finally meets his love for the first time and I just love to read about the love stories starting – like how it all starts. 🤗
First impression is the last impression and in this novel – Love is define in the exact way the person or reader wants, Once the person becomes sober to your eyes you can’t turn back except for the fact that one can throw you from his/her life after using.
My Own Thoughts
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Chapter Four & Five describes the love at first sight like very beautifully , READ AND KNOW MORE 😉
The way Ayaan have a strong feeling for his love, the way he dream, ( Those cheesy lines are cute, read and know more 🤪) decided to made her life partner, and most importantly the way he shows respect to his family like he literally want Tripti like forever, asking and giving positive affirmation to the family for her well being, Aaah! O my god!
🥰 Ayaan is the Man, Somehow many women literally wants … 🥰
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The emotions you have after meeting your first love is like out of this world, I must tell you like I swear ☺️ when you really meet someone and having a feeling that you find your soulmate is beyond awesomely awesome. ☺️
My Own Thoughts
🌅 Favourite line from the novel : If you have a strong belief for something, it will happen sooner or later ~ Pg. 42
Chapter Six to Ten are simple yet written in a very creative way the bonding between friendship, love and the main plot of the story , those deep dark secrets all are just placed well. 😉
Love can make you a better or a bitter person. So, the choice is yours that how you paved the flower of love in your garden 💕
My Own Thoughts
Chapter Eleven to Seventeen the main theme of the story is here, That time in a relationship when all seems like “The End.” Chapters included a most important topic which is “MENTAL ILLNESS” and its not so good in both reel and in reality.
“Sadly people still don’t know what exactly mental illness means”
The Truth…
Just as a reader and a bearer of anxiety and depression, I can understand the characters ( and individual person) feeling at all.
It is very easy to criticize people, leave people in between the walk of life because you can’t understand them or you think that they are mad, ill, passes negativity and much more.
Writing a word, sentence, paragraph, quotes, blogs, books doesn’t mean anything if you judge person from your own perspective.
If you love someone you will never want to be the reason of someone’s anxiety or illness, and if your partner have any problems then ignoring them, making them feel like garbage, make them feel like others are much better and lovable than them, Well you make them alone and ill.
🌅 Favourite line from the novel : Spirituality involves the belief in a divine energy which empowers your soul; whereas believing in it blindly for miracles and expecting things to just happen, to fall into place magically, that is superstition ~ Pg. 190
Instead of this behaviour one should try to understand them, console them because this world is vast no doubt but if you make this world happier without making your own people happy, you gain nothing or you do injustice at all, and sometimes in love or I can say when you truly love the person you support them no matter what or how hard the things is but you always be their side just for their happiness!
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Well, apart from my theory of everything , back to this novel -) I am just glad to read this novel and happy to see a strong character like Ayaan who is portrait like so very well.
The way the character support his love throughout the story , yes some glitches in between but still the character understand the value of both love and friendship and do not mix the things up.
He understand what true love is and what friendship is all about. In the whole story you are amazed that he never give up on his love like for no one and not at any cost.
Well it is all about this fantastic novel by 💟 Author Sameer 💟 and I am happy that this one is super hit 🙏🏻 also I am sure that🤞🏻 many more will definitely release in future by the author! 📚
✨ I wish you all read it once ✨
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Some of my questions are still searching for answers 👇🏻
* What if you love someone whose mental health is not okay, what you do then?!
* What if you do not understand his/her point of view and don’t know what exactly they wants, what you do then ?!
* People still think that mental illness a kind of taboo and without knowing the person they consider them mad, what you do then ?!
All the things which this world need to know about mental illness are still left to learn but some quite disturbing facts are also written in this novel in a manner that you can’t just imagine! READ AND KNOW MORE 💁🏻
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To be cont…
PS :- I am trying to write a story, Hope I will complete it within time and give you something a kind of good read!
Everyone goes through different types of emotions at different times and for different reasons. Men, like women, go through emotional wreck that may lead to depression. Women are likely to attempt suicide and on the other hand, men are more likely to die by suicide. Depression is a period of emotional unhappiness or low morale […]
Today was the another amazing day for the people who love the universe 🌌 possibilities, facts and secrets ✨
I am literally amazed after looking the pics of today which my brother share on social media, though I missed the phenomenon but all my hearts 💞 to the picture I saw. 🥺
Halo 🌝
This image 🖼 he capture live today at 11:30 a.m at Bareilly, U. P ( India ) and I am just totally amazed that he captured it so beautifully and instant 🤞 luckily.
Normally these rings 💫 occur only for a few second and if you capute those seconds in the camera, then 🙌 hats off to my bro 😇
Rainbow 🌈 ring 💍 around the Sun 🌝
Basically Halo is the name for a family of optical phenomena produced by light (typically from the Sun or Moon) interacting with ice crystals suspended in the atmosphere. #wikipedia
Halos can have many forms, ranging from colored or white rings to arcs and spots in the sky. ☁
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Source :- Goggle.
Meteorologists say halos are fairly common and can even occur at night-time, with a halo appearing around the moon.
The phenomenon happens when cloud is very high in the sky and creates ice-crystals, which reflect the sunlight – or moon-light- and create a white halo, says the Met Office.
Plus, if the sunlight hits the ice-crystals at a particular angle, some light can be refracted causing “faint colouration” and a noticeable rainbow 🌈
“Halos happen when we have cloud really high up in the atmosphere – it’s ice crystals and the sun is reflected on them,” said a spokesperson for the Met Office.
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I am just lucky 😇 that he captured the one for me to show as because he knows that I love universe 🌌 related facts…
This year is so devastating but also a bag full of surprises, In the previous months or in a shitty lock down 🔒 time, My city got so many one time in a lifetime kind of surprise – seen above in the sky.
Also on 21/06/2020 I just captured the whole solar eclipse 🌑 in my phone and that day was damn awesome 😇
Many people warn me to not watch 👀 it as it have a negative effects on life, but I dare to watch and I am just blessed 😊
Say no to pollution ✖
Save Earth 🌎
Save the planet 🌍
The 🌌 universe holds a lot of secrets and instead of wasting time in war and negatives,
🕉 EMBRACE THE PLANET 🕉 and it will definitely shows the magic ✡ to you.
Humans are always trying to play a role of god, always trying to defy nature’s laws, always acting as if humans are better than everything else on earth and lol to those fickle poor minded people that there such stupid behaviour lead the death of all of us.
Fallen fruits sow seeds into the earth, withered flowers give life to new buds, leaves that have shed are replaced by new ones, and broken branches grew something new.
🌸 Everything in Nature teaches us one simple lesson, the lesson of life’s which thirst for itself, and the million ways in which it resurrects itself. 🌸
🌵 If such be the course of Nature, why do we worry at the thought of failure, loss and death? Every failure will eventually pave the path to success, every loss will be replaced by a greater gain, and death has to be overpowered by eternal life. 🌵
Perhaps, it is high time and we already are in trouble. This devastating year is doing a lot and we are not sure what it holds further. So its our duty to save our planet.
Well everything happens for a reason, and the reasons are always worth the pain and trouble.
🌱 So before we bother about making our skins fairer, our waists slimmer, our house bigger or our bank balances fatter, perhaps we should focus more on keeping the earth safer 🌱
🌏 This is the only world we have 🌍
💫 This is our only life 💫
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🏡 This is our only home 🏡
We better realise this, before our mighty minds and floating egos together destroy what created us in the first place.
Nature.Earth.Life
🌊Remember, what God gives, it can take back too! 🌀
When two souls fall in love, there is nothing else but the yearning to be close to the other. The presence that is felt through a hand held 👐 a voice heard 👥 or a smile seen☺️
Souls do not have calendars 📆 or clocks 🕦 nor do they understand the notion of time or distance 💭 They only know it feels right to be one another.
The soul is like a star glowing in the night 🌌 Sometimes it seems so distant, sometimes it’s as though you can touch it. The Moments when it burns so bright ☀️ so hot 🔥 it’s as though it will consume you. Moments when it seems as though it will fade and flicker out.
♥ The soul needs fed in many a way. It can at times need soothed. No two are exactly the same. Each has its precious place ♥️
but it is not easy to find a true soulmate, you have to face a lot for finding the compatible mate, because spending a whole life with an unknown person is a very difficult task 😰
🌜 In this era of social media, one easily having a crush on anyone but soon it is seen that it is not what one’s wants, some do love just for lust some for time pass and some for status and in all these the vibes are all clear, because either you or the person who use you truly knows the agenda behind love and frankly I know the feels 🌛
but this all seems not true in case of true love, because true love is far away from these games and agendas.
💚 When you find it, you truly knows its worth either a person is not rich or good looking or may be a famous one or a one with nothing or a lot more than you but all those things can’t define the true definition of love 💚
Well the question is who actually do you think is our soul mate ??? 💁
♥ For me it is not someone who would complete me. ♥ For me it is someone who would push me to give my best. ♥ For me it is someone who brings out good in me even when all I see is darkness. ♥ For me it is someone who will be garment of my soul. ♥ For me it is someone who will guide me through this temporary life. ♥ For me it is someone with whom I won’t regret spending time. ♥ For me it is someone with whom an eternity feels less. ♥ Someone with whom uniting in this world and sitting beside would be beautiful. ♥ Someone with whom falling over and over again till eternity would still feel less.
P.S :- ☘ SOULMATES ARE MAGIC ☘
💫 Once you find it, Once you know is that they are born for you, there is no particular time, year, week and days, … they just come into your life anytime and everything changed 💫
Sometimes people in your life says a lot to you, asking many questions, setting many boundaries, asking you to define your love in front of them, telling you that you don’t deserve them, telling you that you are lucky to have such a beautiful one and always try to ask the same question all over –
Why you choose them ?
& this question hit you back because true love can’t be explain in words.
May be some connections are more than the people and you don’t need to give clarification to anyone because the connection itself is the answer.
There are so many people are here to criticize you with their actions and words but true things are above all.
💜 Eventually the soulmates meet, for they have the same hiding place. 💜
💙 “There’s an old tale that says soulmates’ mind’s are connected from birth. When you can’t sleep, your soulmate can’t sleep either. So next time you are laying awake, know that someone, somewhere is laying awake too.” 💙
💛 Intertwined well beyond time,existing on a plane of own. 💛
P.S :- ☘ FEEL THE MAGIC ☘
Note :- Complete the novel of the month which is soon going to be published ♥ and this article is just something based on that reading and realization. I hope the novel hopefully hit the store ♥ and I will let you know and expecting that you love this article and book thou 🙂
It’s been quite long time since I last wrote, mainly because I had a lot on my plate and barely got enough time to even breathe. But nonetheless, I have some spare time now and I thought why not put a check on what’s been going on in my life from the last week.
Well, as you all may know, the things related with pandemic COVID-19 which was major worldwide, In my school, as i am a teacher there, even they decided to give us rest and advice everyone to self-distance themselves from people, to avoid spreading out the infection of new virus attack.
Now I have around four days of self-lock down and was low key happy that I don’t have to wake up early and go to the school. Not that I don’t like students, staffs and all but I just hate the fact that I had to wake up early and leave the comfort of my bed, that’s all, LOL 😁
Aside from that, I also had a bunch of things in my mind which I need to finish soon as I do have plenty of time to work on it, considering I’m at home right now.
But coming to the point as i am still ill and struggling to breathe just because of cold and cough, this virus and a pandemic still worries me.
Everything was beautiful last week I came back from my hometown and getting busy in school stuff but suddenly as this is the session end for the students, the work load is enough and I also having a tiredness of festival and period cramps, so i fell ill badly.
As on fourteenth of march I feel my throat is block and I can’t talk properly and in the amid of this I hear about the entrance of COVID-19 in our country INDIA.
Sadly many of the Indian travellers came back carries a virus in their body which literally they are not sure about and spread like to their locals, and the situation here in the areas and cities is now levelling up and the fear is real 😦
As I am not having any kind of travel history from foreign or not even a single person I met who come from foreign but still the stiffness in body, throat pain and symptoms are same in my body and as a sensible citizen of india, I take precautions and stay at home from sixteenth of march till now.
Here I am writing on this topic is not that it is in trend or somewhat like that but being a literate citizen I want to tell everyone of you that in this case of emergency and negatives, Kindly support the government initiatives and don’t repeat the same mistakes as what the other developed countries done. They have so many facilities and things out there as compare to our country but still they fail.
And sadly this going to become big and I am tensed.
To all the citizens and countrymen of India and Others, Kindly don’t take this in a funny way or don’t try to become a superman.
Just try to understand the importance of this time, Show unity, Stay at home, Do whatever you want but please stay at home or don’t spread the negatives and if sadly you are infected then without hesitation and anything – Go to the hospital and isolate yourself , not just only for you but for the sake of your loved ones.
I’m keeping myself in an isolate zone right now, this is my day six and I take my precautions and helping the world to fight against Novel Corona (COVID -19)
Important message to all the :-
Doctors, Nurses, Paramedics, Police officers, Bankers, Home Care workers, Pharmacy and other medical workers, Grocery store personnel, Delivery people, Transit workers, Airline workers, & anyone who works with the public and bound to serve at any cost and cannot stay home ☑
Kindly support them by staying at home till the condition is in control.
I just Thank you A million times for saving us.
Wish you all take your safety measures properly and make our country the virus free.
Note :
* Sanitized your body, hands and everything.
* Stay away from crowded place if it is not important.
* Don’t spread the false news.
* If you feel that you’re infected somehow then don’t sit idle, please go and visit the doctors.
Flamboyant B 🐝 